Defining a Shared Future
Commitment Spell
For relationships stuck in undefined territory โ situationships, inconsistent effort, or fear of labels โ a ritual to help genuine commitment take root.
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What This Working Actually Is
For relationships stuck in undefined territory โ situationships, inconsistent effort, or fear of labels โ a ritual to help genuine commitment take root.

Not every relationship in trouble is heading toward marriage or has already been through a breakup. Many clients come to me stuck somewhere in between: a situationship that’s dragged on without definition, a partner who avoids the word “relationship,” or a pattern of getting close and then pulling back. This working addresses that specific kind of stuck.
During your consultation, I ask how long you’ve been seeing each other, what’s actually been said (or avoided) about defining things, and whether the hesitation seems rooted in fear, distraction, or genuine disinterest โ those call for different approaches. A relationship that keeps almost-committing needs different work than one where your partner clearly hasn’t decided what they want.
This ritual draws from the same Senegalese ancestral practice carried through my grandmother Aminata across seven generations of Serer and Wolof tradition. The focus is clearing avoidance and fear of labels, not manufacturing commitment where genuine interest doesn’t exist.
Over 30+ years and more than 5,000 clients, this has been one of the workings I perform most often โ the space between “talking” and “together” is where a huge number of people get stuck, and clarity there tends to come faster than people expect, with a 95% success rate.
When to Choose This Working
This working fits relationships stuck in undefined territory. Check whether your situation matches.
Undefined Situationship
You’ve been seeing each other for a while without any clear label or conversation about what it is.
Pattern of Pulling Back
Your partner gets close, then creates distance, in a repeating cycle.
Inconsistent Communication
Contact is unpredictable โ intense for a while, then quiet, without explanation.
Fear of the Label
Your partner seems genuinely interested but avoids words like “relationship” or “exclusive.”
Commitment Spell vs. Similar Services
Similar-sounding services fit different situations. Here’s how to tell which one actually matches yours.
Commitment Spell fits relationships still working out basic definition and exclusivity โ earlier-stage than marriage, but past casual disinterest.
Marriage Proposal Spell is the better fit once commitment is already established and the question is specifically about moving toward marriage.
Obsession Love Spell is a different service entirely, focused on drawing someone’s attention โ commitment work assumes attraction already exists and addresses the fear or avoidance blocking the next step.
Binding Love Spell is a different layer again — it’s for a bond that’s already mutual and exclusive, spiritually anchoring what’s there. Commitment work comes earlier, addressing whether exclusivity is even established yet.
If you’re not sure whether your situation is about defining the relationship or about generating interest that isn’t there yet, tell me during the consultation and I’ll point you toward the right service honestly.
How the Working Unfolds
Each stage has a specific purpose. You’re kept informed through daily progress updates throughout.
Reading the Pattern
We identify whether the hesitation is fear-driven, distraction, or a deeper lack of interest.
Clearing Avoidance
Fear of labels, past relationship baggage, or commitment anxiety is addressed spiritually first.
Opening Honest Conversation
Sacred materials from the Serer tradition soften the defensiveness that often surrounds “what are we” conversations.
Strengthening Consistency
Across the 3โ7 day working, focus shifts to steadying the on-again, off-again pattern into something more consistent.
Supporting Clarity
I remain reachable to help you navigate the conversation once your partner becomes more open to defining things.
Definition-of-Commitment Worksheet
“Commitment” means something different to everyone. Before your consultation, work through these four questions honestly — it helps clarify what you’re actually asking for.
Labels
What word would you want to use for this — “relationship,” “partner,” something else — and has that word ever come up between you?
Exclusivity
Has exclusivity actually been discussed and agreed to, or assumed by one side without confirmation from the other?
Time Together
Is the amount and consistency of time you spend together something you’re both satisfied with, or a source of the pulling-back pattern?
Future Planning
Have you made any plans together more than a few weeks out, and how did your partner respond when you raised it?
Complete Paper-Only, Candle-Free Version
For clients who can’t use an open flame — shared housing, travel, allergies — here is the full walkthrough of the paper-only alternative.
Two Names, One Page
Write both full names on a single sheet of paper in a quiet space. No candle or flame is used at any point in this version.
Naming the Avoidance
Write one honest sentence describing the fear or avoidance pattern you’ve noticed — this replaces the spoken clearing normally done near an open flame.
A Written Intention
Beneath both names, write a simple line of intention for honest conversation and consistency between you.
Folding and Setting Aside
Fold the paper in thirds and place it somewhere undisturbed for the 3–7 day working period.
Releasing It
Afterward, keep the paper somewhere private or release it respectfully — the working doesn’t depend on keeping any object.
Every Detail, Provided Transparently
Nothing about this working is left vague. Here is exactly what happens, and what you receive.

Free Consultation
A genuine reading of the pattern in your relationship before any working begins.
Custom Ritual Design
Built around whether the block is fear, distraction, or something deeper.
3โ7 Days of Focused Work
Continuous work addressing avoidance and inconsistency.
Daily Progress Updates
Personal check-ins throughout the working.
Conversation Guidance
A practical script for the “what are we” conversation once your partner opens up.
30-Day Follow-Up
Ongoing support as the relationship moves toward clarity.
Materials-Only Pricing
No spell-casting fee โ only the actual cost of ritual materials.
100% Material Refund
Refunded in full if the working produces no genuine movement.
A Word on Pricing
I do not charge a spell-casting fee โ that’s against my sacred custom. You cover only the cost of the sacred materials your working requires, confirmed with you transparently during your free consultation. There are no hidden fees and no fixed prices listed online, because no two situations are alike โ and if the working doesn’t bring genuine results, your materials cost is refunded in full, 100%.
What This Working Can and Cannot Do
I’d rather lose a booking than oversell a working. Here is the honest scope of this service.
Most clients notice their partner becoming more consistent and communicative within 3 to 7 days of the working closing โ fewer disappearing acts, more willingness to talk about the relationship directly.
If your consultation reveals your partner simply isn’t interested in commitment at all, rather than afraid of it, I’ll tell you honestly rather than take a case built on false hope. Clearing fear only works when genuine interest exists underneath it.
What this ritual can do: soften avoidance and fear of labels in someone who’s genuinely interested but stuck. What it can’t do: create attraction or interest that was never there, or force a specific label onto a relationship your partner doesn’t actually want.
Ethical Boundaries I Won’t Cross
Every working on this site, including this commitment spell service, is built around one non-negotiable principle: respect for the free will of everyone involved, including people who are not my client. Spiritual work can open pathways, soften resentment, and clear the emotional noise that keeps two people from reaching each other honestly โ it cannot and will not be used to override someone’s clearly stated decision, force feelings that aren’t there, or make someone act against their own judgment.
If your consultation reveals a request that crosses into coercion, surveillance, or controlling another adult’s choices, I’ll say so directly and won’t take the case, regardless of how the request is framed or how much you’re willing to pay. This isn’t a legal disclaimer added to cover myself โ it reflects what I actually believe spiritual work is for, and what it was never meant to do. Clients who’ve worked with me over 30+ years and 5,000+ cases know this is a consistent, firm line in my practice, not a policy that bends under pressure.
What Happens During Your Free Consultation
The consultation isn’t a formality before a sale โ it’s the step where I actually decide, honestly, whether this working can help your specific situation.
You’ll start by describing your situation in your own words โ what’s happened, what you’re hoping for, and any details relevant to a commitment spell working specifically. I’ll ask direct follow-up questions rather than move straight to a sales pitch, since a useful reading depends on understanding your actual circumstances, not a generic version of them.
From there, I’ll do a short divination reading โ rooted in the same Serer cowrie shell tradition passed down through seven generations of my family โ to assess whether the working is genuinely a good fit. If it is, I’ll walk you through what materials are needed, roughly what they’ll cost, and what the 3 to 7 day timeline looks like for your case. If it isn’t a good fit, I’ll tell you that plainly and, where possible, point you toward a service that actually matches your situation. Either way, the consultation itself is free, and nothing is charged until you decide to move forward.
30+ Years of Verified Practice
I’m Baba Ali, practicing Senegalese spiritual tradition for 30+ years across more than 5,000 client cases, with a 95% success rate. My grandmother Aminata trained me in a Serer and Wolof lineage carried through seven generations. I read every situation honestly before starting a working, including telling clients when the issue is disinterest rather than fear.
When you choose Baba Ali for a commitment spell working, you’re choosing a practitioner who has performed this exact ritual repeatedly across more than 5,000 client cases, not a generalist offering every spell under one roof. Every reading starts honestly, every review published on this site under the “Verified” label has been independently checked before publication, and support is available 24/7 for clients moving through an active working โ not limited to business hours.
Reviews You Can Actually Trust
Every review published on this site carries a “Verified” label, meaning it’s checked against a real client record before it goes live โ composite, unverifiable, or invented testimonials are never used here, on this page or anywhere else on the site. That’s a deliberate choice, not a formality: this industry is full of fabricated success stories, and I’d rather show fewer reviews than show fake ones.
You can read the full, independently verified client feedback for this and every other service on the TopSpellsUSA Reviews page, alongside the site’s documented success statistics methodology โ including how “95% success rate” is actually measured, not just asserted.
Available Wherever You Are
This commitment spell working is delivered remotely and is available to clients across all 50 US states โ distance has no bearing on the ritual itself, and no in-person visit is required at any stage. Whether you’re in a major city or a small town, your consultation, your working, and your daily updates all happen the same way: by phone, message, and email, with 24/7 support available throughout.
Clients reach out from every time zone, and scheduling is arranged around your availability, not a fixed office-hours window. If you’re weighing whether remote delivery is as effective as an in-person visit would be, the honest answer from 30+ years of practice is that it makes no meaningful difference โ the ritual’s materials and intention are what matter, not physical proximity between practitioner and client.
Confidentiality, Taken Seriously
Details you share for a commitment spell consultation โ names, circumstances, photographs where relevant โ are handled with strict discretion and are never shared with anyone outside our conversation. I work alone; there’s no support team or call center passing your case between different people.
Physical materials tied to your working are disposed of properly once the ritual closes, and digital records are kept only as long as needed to provide follow-up support. If privacy is a specific concern for your situation, say so during the consultation and I’ll walk you through exactly how your information is handled.
How to Prepare Before Your Consultation
You don’t need anything special to book a consultation for commitment spell โ a clear, honest account of your situation is what actually matters. Before the call, it helps to think through a simple timeline in your own head: when things changed, what’s been said or left unsaid, and what outcome would genuinely feel right to you, rather than what you think you’re supposed to want.
If your situation involves another person’s full name, a rough sense of dates is more useful to have ready than exact ones โ I’ll ask for what’s actually needed during the call itself rather than require a long form upfront. There’s no need to over-prepare or rehearse; the consultation works best as an honest conversation, not a presentation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes. A complete paper-only, candle-free version is included on this page below, for anyone who can’t use an open flame or simply prefers not to.
This working addresses the emotional avoidance that makes those conversations hard in the first place โ it’s meant to work alongside honest communication, not replace it.
I’ll assess this honestly during the consultation. If the reading suggests disinterest rather than fear, I’ll say so rather than promise a result the situation doesn’t support.
There’s no strict minimum, though this working tends to fit situations that have gone on long enough for a pattern โ weeks to months โ rather than a first date.
No. The working is performed on your behalf and doesn’t require your partner’s awareness.
If there’s no genuine shift after the working closes, your material costs are refunded in full.
Both full names and an honest description of the pattern โ how contact ebbs and flows and what’s been said or avoided about defining things.
This working addresses emotional avoidance, not a genuine mismatch in what you each want long-term. If an honest conversation shows your goals are actually different โ not just unspoken โ that’s worth sitting with honestly, on its own or with a counselor, rather than repeating the working hoping for a different answer.
Yes, completely. Details shared during your consultation are never disclosed.
Use the “Book Free Consultation” button on this page or call (210) 651-2737 directly. You’ll share a short description of your situation, and I’ll personally confirm within a few hours whether this working fits, with no payment required upfront and no pressure to proceed.
A Sample Conversation Opening Line
The conversation guidance included with this service is practical support for raising the topic of exclusivity โ not licensed counseling. One example opening line: “I want to know where we both see this going, because it matters to me and I think it matters to you too.” If deeper relationship issues come up, a licensed counselor is a better resource than repeated ritual work.
Pairing Intention With Action
Whichever ritual version you use, close it by writing your intention next to one observable action with a real date โ for example, “have the exclusivity conversation by [date].” The spiritual work and the real-world step are meant to be tracked together, not separately.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Undefined isn’t the same as uninterested โ sometimes it just needs the fear named and cleared.