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Getting Your Ex Back When They’ve Blocked You
A block feels like a locked door, but it is rarely the wall it appears to be. What being blocked actually means, why remote work does not require contact, and the mistake nearly every client makes in the first week.
Clients arrive at this question already assuming the door is locked. A block feels absolute — a decision, in writing, that closes off even the possibility of a reply. I understand why it feels that way. But a block is rarely the wall it looks like, and it is one of the situations where remote spiritual work genuinely does more than a phone or an apology ever could, precisely because no contact is required for it to begin.
What Being Blocked Actually Signals
Before anything else, I want to correct the assumption most clients bring to this conversation: a block is almost never evidence of indifference. Indifference does not need a block. People block someone they have stopped caring about by simply not thinking about them. A block is an active decision, made by someone who is still thinking about you enough to want a wall between you.
That does not mean the feelings behind it are positive. A block after a bad ending often signals hurt, self-protection, or exhaustion with a situation that kept reopening — not the absence of feeling. Reading which of these applies to your case is the first thing I do in a consultation, because it changes the timeline more than almost anything else.
The Part That Surprises Clients
None of the work described below requires you to have contact, or for the block to be lifted first. The working operates on the connection between you, not on the phone in either of your pockets. Clients regularly report the block being lifted from the other side, unprompted, once the underlying feeling shifts — not because any technical workaround was attempted.
The Mistake Nearly Everyone Makes First
01Trying to get around the block technically
New number, a friend’s phone, a second social media account, showing up somewhere they’ll be. Every one of these, if discovered, confirms exactly the impression that led to the block in the first place — that you cannot respect a boundary. I understand the impulse. I would still tell you not to act on it.
02Escalating through mutual friends
Asking a mutual friend to pass along a message, or to report back on how your ex is doing, puts that friend in an uncomfortable position and often gets back to your ex in a way that reads as indirect pressure rather than genuine space.
03Treating the block as proof the relationship is unsalvageable
This is the quieter mistake, and it is the one that actually causes clients to give up work that might otherwise have succeeded. A block is a boundary, not a verdict. Reading it as a permanent closed door leads people to abandon reconciliation work exactly when patience would have served them best.
The block is between two phones. The work happens somewhere a block cannot reach. — Baba Ali
How the Work Applies Without Any Contact
The casting itself happens at my altar, using your written name, photo, and intention — the same materials and process used for every reconciliation working, block or no block. Distance and contact status do not weaken the work; the connection between two people is not routed through their phones. I explain the full mechanism in how love spells actually work, and the short version is that the working reopens an energetic channel that a block cannot close, because a block only closes a technical one.
What changes with a block is not whether the work can be done, but how first contact is likely to happen once it lands. Clients who were blocked often report the block being quietly removed, or a message arriving from a new number, rather than a message through the old blocked thread. I coach clients specifically on what to do in the days after the working, since how you respond to that first reopened contact matters as much as the working itself.
Blocked and Not Sure What to Do?
Tell me the situation — how long ago, what led to it, whether there’s been any indirect contact since. I’ll give you an honest read on the timeline and what, if anything, is worth doing while you wait.
What to Actually Do While You Wait
Live your life visibly but not performatively. Stop checking whether the block has lifted multiple times a day — it changes nothing about the timeline and only prolongs the anxiety. Do not create new accounts to check on them. If a mutual event or setting brings you into the same physical space, be calm and brief rather than using the moment to make a case for yourself.
The standard aftercare window after a reconciliation casting runs three to seven days, with check-ins throughout — the same as any other reconciliation work, described in full in the 5-step ritual process. A block does not extend that window on its own; what extends it is how deep the original hurt runs, which is exactly what a proper reading assesses first.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can a love spell work if my ex has blocked me?
Yes. The working uses your written name, photo, and intention rather than any direct contact, so a block does not prevent it from being performed. What it affects is how first contact is likely to happen afterward, not whether the work can be done.
Should I try to get around the block to reach them?
No. Technical workarounds — new numbers, second accounts, going through mutual friends — tend to confirm the exact concern that led to the block and can set reconciliation back further than doing nothing.
Does being blocked mean they don’t have feelings for me anymore?
Not necessarily, and often the opposite. Indifference doesn’t usually need a block; people who have genuinely stopped caring tend to simply not think about you. A block is frequently self-protection from someone still processing real feeling.
How long does it usually take after a working for a blocked ex to reach out?
The standard window I track is three to seven days, the same as other reconciliation work, though a deeper original hurt can extend that. I check in daily during this period and adjust honestly if things are moving slower than expected.
What should I do if the block is lifted after the working?
Respond calmly and briefly rather than with an emotional flood of everything you’ve wanted to say. I coach clients specifically on this moment, because how you handle the first reopened contact matters as much as the working that reopened it.
A Final Word From Baba Ali
I have watched more blocks lift than I can count, and almost never because of anything the client did on the technical side. It happens because the underlying feeling shifted, and the block — which was never really about the phone — stopped serving its purpose. Be patient with the process, stay off the workarounds, and let the work do what a message never could.
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